As people have become more confident talking about what they desire, official sex parties are becoming increasingly popular. Sex parties used to be held in private at a friend’s house they’re still largely frowned upon by society, but not as much as they were 20-odd years ago. …but there’s always someone who knows who everyone is I’m talking men in suits or tuxedos, and women in ball gowns or LBDs.ĥ. Great for those who are a bit shy, and even those who aren’t, like me – doing someone I don’t know really turns me on! Apparently it isn’t surprising for people to dress up at sex parties, either. Yes, masks are often involved as a way of enhancing the anonymity.
And although beauty is in the eye of the beholder, she assures me there’s never been anybody lower than an eight at the parties she’s been to – and she’s been to a lot of parties. My friend is absolutely gorgeous (I know – fun and gorgeous? She must have been ugly in her teens, which allowed her to develop an actual personality). They’re not just a chance for ugly, desperate people to get laid Only married couples and single women are invited, and instead of men sleazily approaching women, the ladies need to make first contact.ģ. Here’s what I’ve learnt about sex parties, thanks to my very straight-up friend… But that doesn’t mean she and I can’t chat about it. Though she has mentioned she’d be more than happy to take me along to a sex party, she’s never forced the issue my husband has made his thoughts very clear on the topic, and I’ve got to set a limit somewhere. It was refreshing and, actually, it’s what started a beautiful friendship between us. I was not expecting that kind of openness. “But we prefer to say we’re a couple who’s open to experimenting and keeping our relationship fresh by attending sex parties.” “You can tell whomever it was you heard it from that yes, Tom and I are ‘swingers’,” she exclaimed. “Just around the office – but I’d rather not mention names,” I answered. “My God, Arie, I thought you were about to resign! Where’d you hear this?” My heartbeat started to settle a little thank God that didn’t end up as awkward as I anticipated. She flung her head back and roared with laughter. “It’s probably none of my business, but I just can’t seem to get it off my mind… Are you and Tom swingers?” “I overheard something the other day,” I said nervously. It was really none of my business, but I felt the need to clear the air. Now, if you’ve read any of my other articles, you’d know I’m not backward in coming forward, so I took my new boss outside on a non-deadline day. Wow, I thought, that’s actually super-hot! Like, how good is it that they trust their relationship enough to allow each other to sleep with other people? And the whole ‘anonymity’ thing is seriously titillating.
“No, babe, as in, they go to someone’s house with other people and everybody puts their keys in a bowl, and then whoever’s keys you choose is who you go home with that night,” one of them explained.